There are no formal rules at swingers clubs but basic manners can take you a long way and make you more popular with other swingers.

If you are a member of a swinger club, it can be online or not, then you will naturally get invited to swingers parties. Swingers’ parties are a happening where swinging couples and selected singles meet for an evening of free sex. This can take place at a private residence or at an actual swingers club.

The important thing to remember when you are going to a swingers party is that you are the guest and should behave like the guest. Couples have been kicked out of swingers clubs for misbehaving at swingers parties.

What to do at a swingers party

It’s always important to greet your host and hostess when you arrive at a swingers party and to thank them afterwards. If they like you then the chances of them inviting you to other parties are really good. Word of mouth is also huge in the swinger community and you will get a reputation as a likeable swinger at your swingers club.

Be polite to the other members of the swinger club. If they invite you for a threesome or a gang-bang that you don’t want to partake in then just gently say no thanks. Don’t insult them and never try to force yourself on other members who don’t want you. No always means no at a swingers club.

If you are in a situation where you are telling another member no and they don’t want to back off then go tell your hostess. It is their responsibility to keep all the swingers club member inline and make sure that everyone is having fun.

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